Thursday, May 22, 2008

Things I am Missing About OZ

Me again.

I wanted to write this in a separate post from the whole car shopping thing. As I've been slowly readjusting to my regular life (or as regular as it is right now, anyway), I've been musing over the things which I'm missing from OZ... as well as the things I'm NOT missing. Oh, and what things I'm glad to have back in my life. Etc. etc. So in no particular order...

Things I'm Missing From OZ...
  • Parrots. Even the noisy ones. Which is pretty much all of them.
  • Boost Juice. It's just not the same here.
  • Ginger beer. Can't find it in the grocery stores!
  • Tim Tams. Of course.
  • The incredible blue of the Aussie sky.
  • The red, red, RED sand.
  • Lizards.
  • Australian commercials.
  • Sushi rolls.
  • The crazy architecture, both new and old, that is in Melbourne.
  • The awesome scenery that is everywhere!
  • All of my friends, new and old! :-(
Things I'm NOT Missing From OZ...
  • The price of food. I went to Tim Hortons and bought a tea and a donut and paid $2.13. That would NEVER happen in OZ!
  • The winter weather in Melbourne. My parents house is insulated. What a concept!
  • The flies. Although the mozzies here are pretty bad, since the spring was so late.
  • Fried eggs on hamburgers. 'Nuff said.
  • Metlink and V-Line. Oh, yeah.
  • Car turn signals on the right steering wheel stem. (I've only managed to turn the windshield wipers on in my Mom's car three times since I've returned. :-) Hee hee!)
Things I'm Enjoying About Being Home...
  • Friends and family I haven't seen in a long time!
  • Tim Horton's. It's frankly embarrassing how many times I've been to Timmy's since I got back.
  • Central heating. Yes, it's still on here - the weather's been cold!
  • Plant leaves in more than one shape.
  • The cottage, the lake, and the loons.
  • Getting ready for summer camp!
  • Buying my new car!
  • Telling many, many, many, many, many stories that begin with "In Australia..."
Things I'm NOT Enjoying About Being Home...
  • The bed in my parents' house is way too hard. But this has been a problem for years. Really, I need a new back.
  • The disastrous mess that is my room here, as I unpack/repack for summer. Gah.
  • Not having my own desk.
  • The idea that I will actually have to go back to *work* in the fall!
  • Gas prices... which aren't as bad as in OZ, but are still much worse than when I left.
I know I've left stuff off these lists, so feel free to comment if you want!

Car Shopping

So... I've spent the last two days car shopping, as I begin the long and complicated process of putting my life back together to some semblance of normal. After much hemming and hawing, I've decided to lease a Honda Fit. Now that I've made a decision, I'm so excited! Dad and I are heading to the dealership first thing in the morning to settle the paperwork and all that stuff. Hooray!

And yes, I did end up getting a standard car. My friend Jane (who I haven't seen in the past three years, for all that her parents literally live two doors down the street from mine - our paths just haven't crossed!) came with me today to do a second test drive in a standard model. Yesterday I drove an automatic and didn't like it at all. But Jane drives standard, so she came with me and helped me drive the car to a quiet neighborhood, where I could experiment with the gear shifting. The car handles so much better as a manual gear shift.

So yeah. That's one big decision out of the way. And as soon as I know when I can take delivery of the car, I'll know when I'm heading to Toronto to begin househunting.

Monday, May 19, 2008

Home at last - at least for now!

I'm sitting in the den in my parents house in Ottawa, pretty much in exactly the same spot that I was in way back in September when I wrote the first entry for this blog. It feels kinda strange to be home after so long! Well, sort of home. I mean, I'm still officially "homeless" for now... I won't have my own place in Toronto for at least another month, if not more, and even then I won't really be living in Toronto until September because of summer camp. But yeah, for now, I'm home. Strange, but still good!

My travels across the country went well. On my very last day on Gabriola Island, Dave, Aylan and I went out to Drumbeg, a park at the far end of the island, and enjoyed a picnic lunch. Aylan is definitely related to me. She spent most of her time either picking flowers and grasses to give to me, or turning over rocks and exclaiming "eeew!" at the crabs and other critters underneath. We went on a quest to find an anemone a(I'm pretty sure she has no idea what an anemone is) but didn't find any in the rock pools. But all too soon the afternoon came to an end and we had to head back to the house so I could grab my stuff and Dave could take me to the ferry.

I'm pretty sure Aylan didn't quite understand that I wasn't living with them now. She wasn't too happy that I was leaving, but to give her credit, she's not quite three yet and she was very tired. Apparently she's been asking for me over the past few days, which I take it means I fulfilled my job as an auntie well. :-)

Dave drove me back to Nanaimo and dropped me off at the Duke Point ferry terminal and said goodbye. Once I made it on board, my job was to find Bill Hawke, my dad's friend who earlier in the week had driven me from the Vancouver Airport to the Tsawassen ferry terminal on the mainlaind side. He'd spent the week also on Vancouver Island with his wife Gail and a bunch of family friends, and we'd coordinated our return trips to the mainland to coincide so that I could hitch a ride back with him. Well we must've missed each other a number of times as we wandered around on the ferry (these boats are HUGE and can hold hundreds of people!), so I eventually gave up on looking and bought myself dinner from the onboard cafeteria instead. Of course that's when Gail finally did find me! Figures.

Bill and Gail and their friends had driven onto the ferry with their big camper van, but I had been a walk on passenger. This meant I also had to walk off on the far side and collect my checked baggage before I could rejoin the crew in the camper for the next part of the ride. Once we were all together, we headed for Bill and Gail's condo in South Vancouver. I hadn't realized that all of Bill and Gail's friends were also staying with them at the condo, so it was pretty full! There were five other guests in the camper van besides me, so we were jokingly calling it "Bill's bus". Ha ha!

It took a bit of coordinating once we got to the condo to get everyone's gear inside and set up in the various spare rooms. Since I was a last minute addition, and I was only staying overnight, I slept on the couch. (And a very comfy couch it was, too!). Bill was kind enough to get up with me at 4:45 in the morning (yuck) to take me to the airport. I actually bought a ticket for this leg of the journey - I wanted to make sure that my friends who were kind enough to pick me up in Toronto didn't miss any more of their long weekend than absolutely necessary.

Jen was right. That last flight from Vancouver to Toronto was waaaaay longer than the flight from Sydney to Vancouver! I guess it was because I was really finally at the end of the journey. It seemed to me that the last couple of hours took simply forever. But of course eventually I was back on the ground and collecting my stuff from the baggage carousel (which also seemed to take forever) and searching for my friends. Cat met me just outside the security zone and greeted me with a big hug! Then she called for Andy, our chauffeur for the weekend, who was waiting near the airport, and she picked us up. By 3pm on Saturday we were on our way to the cottage at last!

We got a wee bit too involved with yakking in the car and completely missed the exit off the 401 for Bowmanville, where I usually turn north to head towards the cottage. Ah well! We turned north at Norwood instead and took the back route. We got there in time for dinner with my folks, which was of course great. And it's funny - although it was cooler at the cottage than it has been in Melbourne recently, I swear I didn't feel the cold in the way I had when I was Down Under! Maybe my body was just happy to be home. :-)

Cat, Andy and I spent the rest of the weekend at the cottage, bumming around, eating various unhealthy items like swedish berries and skittles, burning things in the bonfire pit, and helping Dad put in the docks. This is the first year that we've had the new dock system, so it was a bit of an experimental procedure to get them in the water without getting wet. The individual dock segments are made of aluminum so they aren't all that heavy, but it was still a challenge to remain dry. We ended up floating the deep-end sections on the end of our paddle boat, with Cat steering the boat, while Dad and Uncle Ron and I attached stuff near the shore. In the end Cat did get a little wet but we got the silly thing in place!

My grandma owns the cottage next door to ours, and she and her sister (my great-aunt Marcelle) and my Uncle Ron and Aunt Kenna and my parents and my friends and I all got together for a great big gigantic feast on Sunday night, which was great. Well, except for the weather... it was possibly a high of 5C and raining and windy! So much for enjoying Victoria Day fireworks. We'll just have to save the pyrotechnics for Canada Day, I guess.

Today I said goodbye to Andy and Cat as they headed back to Toronto, and I drove with my parents to Ottawa. There's a new Tim Horton's open in Havelock now, and the lineup was out the door! (I have been to Timmy's four times in the past four days... well if that isn't a sign that I'm definitely home, I don't know what is!) We got home about 6pm and after unloading the car went straight out to dinner. I was originally supposed to go out to dinner with my best friend Vicky, but due to an unfortunate game of phone tag we missed each other until I was already out with my folks! Vicky and I did manage to meet up for desert, though. I've missed her SO MUCH these past eight months - it was GREAT to see her again.

So, all my faithful blog readers, we are nearing the end of my writings. I do have one more entry I want to make - but I'll do it tomorrow. Once again it appears to be way past my bedtime, and I'm pooped!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Last full day on Gabriola

Yep, tomorrow I pack my bags - again - and head eastwards once more. I'll be catching the evening ferry along with Bill Hawke and his assorted family members, and staying overnight with him, before flying to Toronto on Saturday. So I tried my best to make the most of today.

The weather was much better today than it has been for the last two, so we spent as much of the day outside as possible. Carly, Aylan and I went to the gardening centre and bought some plants and pots. We went back to the house and picked up Rowyn, fresh from her afternoon nap, and headed to the local coffee shop/gift shop for a browse. When we returned to the house a second time, Aylan helped her mom to do some planting, and of course in the process got filthy dirty. I was helping Aylan to refill her watering can at the tap. At one point she moved the can at the wrong moment and I sprayed her with water. (The horror!) She was NOT happy about being in wet clothes. But since it was nice and warm, Carly said it was ok for her to take off her pants and socks and walk around in her shirt only. Well, that lasted all of about 5 seconds before she'd shed all the rest of her clothes too and was happily splashing around in the muddy puddle she was making with her watering can. Gotta love almost-three-year-old logic: it's not OK to have wet jeans, but it is apparently OK to have wet muddy skin from chin to feet. And yes, I got some cute pics. Which I'll share at the cottage on the weekend. :-)

Carly's off at a "Moms' Night Out" dinner and Dave's just putting the kids to bed. Aylan once again pretty much fell asleep at the table tonight, but Rowyn isn't apparently all that interested in sleeping. Hopefully she'll go down soon. Dave's got a Wii and we're gonna play some video games tonight, once we get some 'adult' time. I can't believe it's already time for me to head onwards - this week has gone so fast!

Not sure when I will next get a chance to blog... I won't have email tomorrow or all weekend long, since I'll be at the cottage. Hopefully I'll put in one or two more entries next week once I get back to Ottawa before closing down this blog for good. I'm sad that this is coming to an end!

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Snotty Noses and other Fun

So today I've played hide and seek, been jumped on and poked and tickled, put together about 15 jigsaw puzzles, read a ton of books, soothed a bonked head, pushed kids on the swing, etc. etc. etc. I don't know who's more worn out - Aylan and Rowyn or me! The truth is I'm playing more with Aylan than with Rowyn... the little one was a big grumpy bear today (she's not feeling well) and was far more happy being with mom or dad than with me. No worries. Both girls are now in bed... Aylan practically fell asleep in her dinner.

Dave's been working on my computer all day and it is much happier. Most importantly, the fan isn't so loud anymore, which is GREAT. Thanks Dave! (I think it's funny that my computer gets its yearly servicing every time I come across the country to visit my bro.)

And I am apparently still jet-lagged... I couldn't fall asleep last night for the life of me, and then I was up wide awake at 5am this morning. I must admit I caved and had a nap yesterday afternoon, which was likely part of the problem. No nap for me today. Hopefully I can get a 'normal' night's sleep tonight!

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

I Am The Chosen One

Yep. Life is good.

Aylan has apparently decided that I am The Chosen One, which means she wants me to help her with everything. I have to sit beside her at meals. I helped her brush her teeth and visit the potty. We did puzzles together and read books together and watched Sesame Street together this afternoon. She wanted me to be with her in the bath and put her to bed too. Pretty cool!

Rowyn is also a total cutie. She is a pretty laid back baby, although she was a little cranky today and the thought is that more teeth are on their way in. The important thing is I can actually hold her! When Aylan was little she didn't want anyone but Carly (mom) to hold her. Today Dave had to take Aylan to and from preschool, which left me home alone with Rowyn for two 20-minute periods. We played and giggled and cooed and laughed and it was great.

I gotta remember to take out the camera tomorrow or I'm going to get shot by my mom on the weekend! :-)

Monday, May 12, 2008

Back in the Great White North

Hooray! I finally made it back to Canada!

I must admit I went to the Sydney airport yesterday feeling more than a little nervous/sick to my stomach. I was pretty much convinced that I wasn't going to get on the plane. There were some 30-odd folks on the standby list with me, and pretty much all of them were ahead of me in the seniority rankings. As I watched the crowd of standby hopefuls grow and grow outside the ticketing counter, I was already mentally preparing myself to go and buy tickets through Honolulu with Jet Star and West Jet. Fortunately I never had to!

The plane was scheduled to leave at 10:10am, and they didn't start handing out the standby boarding passes until 9:30. As more and more folks were called to get their passes and head for the plane, I was completely convinced I wasn't getting on. But this time at least my luck was with me. I got the very last boarding pass for the plane! I had stopped looking at my watch by this point because I knew it was so close to the time the plane was taking off. When they called my name for the boarding pass I swear I felt like I won the lottery! I thanked the counter staff profusely, dumped them with my checked bags, and hoofed it to security. Once through the screening I practically ran all the way to the plane, through the maze of construction that is Sydney airport. I was one of the last people to board the plane. PHEW!

The flight certainly had its challenges. There was something wrong with the in-flight entertainment system, so unfortunately my interactive touch screen (and those of about 90% of the other passengers) didn't work. So I spent the 14 hour flight with a blank screen and no music either. When it got dark I discovered that my reading light also didn't work. Gah. Thank goodness I had my flashlight! Also, the guy in the seat in front of me was more than a little rude. I was in the very last row of seats in the plane, and the storage bins over my seat were full of airplane equipment, so I went to put my bags in the bin in front. The guy in that row was downright rude to me, basically telling me to go find somewhere else to put my stuff because he didn't want my bags over his head. BLAH. They'd already made the announcements for everyone to take their seats and fasten their belts at this point. Fortunate one of the flight attendants came to my rescue and took my wheely suitcase to be cabin checked. In the end it wound up in a bin in Business class... so at least my luggage made it back to Canada in style!

When we arrived in Vancouver I had no problems going through customs (and I didn't even have to explain about the funky hat I bought - yay!), and Bill Hawke picked me up to drive me to the ferry. We stopped at (you guessed it!) Tim Hortons for a much needed caffeine break before arriving at the ferry terminal. I did a quick switcheroo with some of my luggage items so I only had to bring my big red pack with me. Bill's gonna store the rest of my luggage this week and I'll get it back just before I fly to Toronto on Saturday.

The ferry ride was actually harder in many ways than the plane ride. By the time I got on the ferry my body felt like it was about 4am, and I got no sleep on the plane. I was more than a little groggy by the time my brother Dave and my niece Aylan picked me up on the Nanaimo side. But after a spot of lunch and a good big mug of tea, all was well.

Aylan has grown so much since I last saw her! She's now almost 3 years old and very independant. She's talking up a storm, although I don't always understand what she's trying to say. Dave is very good at translating "toddler" for me. Aylan loves to have stories read to hear and I swear I read about 30 picture books to her this afternoon, including the four that I bought her as a present. Her younger sister, Rowyn, is a cutie patootie... and not at all fussy about who holds her, unlike how Aylan was at her age (8 months). Dave and I pushed Aylan and Rowyn in the swings in the backyard for over an hour and neither girl tired of the fun. I think I was more worn out than they were!

The girls are in bed now and Carly's had to go off on a short business call, so I've caught a few free minutes to update my blog. All is well here and it feels so good to be back in Canada. Although it'll be interesting to see how my body decides to deal with the jet lag in the next few days...

I'll keep this blog going for the next week, so that my Aussie friends can hear about my adventures with my nieces here in BC, and then I'll likely sign off for good. The thing is, I've gotten rather used to blogging now. Who knows -maybe I'll start another blog once this one is done! But is my so-called normal life really exciting enough to post online for all the world to see?